What to Do If I Really Need a Hug?What to Do If I Really Need a Hug?
What to Do If I Really Need a Hug?
It’s completely normal to find yourself thinking, “I really need a hug.” Human touch is a basic need that brings calm and comfort, but sometimes we don’t have anyone available to give one. At Embrace Club, we understand the human need for closeness and how the act of hugging can help soothe your nervous system and boost your emotional well-being. If you ever feel you need a hug, there are still many ways to feel safe, grounded, and supported.
When You Need a Hug
When you’re feeling lonely or stressed, the body releases more cortisol, known as the stress hormone. This can cause your heart rate to rise and impact your emotional regulation. A comforting hug helps lower stress, reduces feelings of sadness, and restores emotional balance. The “cuddle hormone,” or oxytocin, is released during physical contact and gives a soothing effect on the body and mind.
Even if you don’t have anyone nearby, it’s not uncommon to feel this way. Many people yearn for a hug because the brain’s reward system links it with feelings of safety and love. A single moment of closeness can help you start feeling better and regain a sense of well-being.
When You Want a Hug but No One’s Around
Sometimes, you may want a hug but can’t receive one. In those moments, there are many alternatives that can help you feel calmer. Try wrapping your arms around yourself for a self-hug. This simple act provides deep pressure stimulation that can soothe your nervous system and activate the parasympathetic response that helps you relax.
A weighted blanket or a soft pillow can also create a similar feel-good response. These options help with emotional regulation and support the release of oxytocin, which can lower blood pressure and heart rate. The goal is to give yourself a hug that feels safe, warm, and nurturing.
Try These Hug Alternatives
If you feel the need for a hug but don’t have anyone to hold you, focus on self-care practices that provide comfort. Cuddling a pet can help because physical touch with animals releases endorphins and helps boost your mood. You can also try self-massage by gently applying pressure on your arms or shoulders to soothe and calm your nervous system. Deep breathing and mindfulness are also effective. When you focus on your breath and slowly exhale, you help manage stress and support your mental well-being.
Meditation practices can also improve emotional regulation by allowing you to manage your thoughts and emotions. If you have a weighted blanket or a cuddly object nearby, wrap your arms around it and notice the sense of closeness it brings. These feel-good alternatives help reduce stress and bring comfort when physical contact with another person isn’t available.
Give Yourself a Hug
Self-hugging is a simple and powerful form of self-compassion. When you wrap your arms around your body, you’re signaling your brain to release dopamine and endorphins—neurotransmitters that boost your mood and create feelings of pleasure. This self-soothing action helps you feel grounded when you’re feeling sad or stressed.
To practice, find a quiet spot and focus on your breath. Wrap your arms around your shoulders or chest and apply light pressure. Notice how your muscles relax and your heartbeat steadies. This form of self-love can help you feel better right away. The act of hugging yourself is a reminder that even if you don’t have anyone nearby, you are still capable of giving yourself comfort and care.
The Science Behind the Need for a Hug
The need for a hug comes from both emotional and physical responses. Hugging supports the release of oxytocin, and the brain releases other feel-good chemicals like dopamine. These contribute to a sense of closeness and comfort. The act of hugging also releases endorphins that help reduce stress and promote relaxation.
Research shows that getting a hug or even giving one can lower stress hormones, stabilize blood pressure and heart rate, and improve mental well-being. These calming effects help soothe your nervous system and bring emotional balance, which supports better sleep and mood. The release of oxytocin also brings feelings of pleasure and helps strengthen emotional closeness and relationship models that build trust and safety.
When You Feel You Need More Support
If you still feel this yearning for a hug or ongoing feelings of loneliness, it’s okay to ask for help. Talking to someone you trust, joining a supportive community, or seeking professional cuddling services can help. At Embrace Club, our sessions focus on safe physical contact, emotional closeness, and self-care techniques that promote better emotional health.
Our trained cuddle therapists understand the deep human need for connection and the soothing effects of physical touch. Whether through a real hug or mindful comfort techniques, we help you find the ways to boost your mood, reduce stress, and feel connected again.
Find Comfort and Calm with Embrace Club.
The need for a hug is a natural response to the desire for warmth, care, and comfort. When you’re feeling stressed or lonely, remember that it’s completely normal to feel this way. You can practice self-hugging, deep breathing, or other self-soothing activities to help you feel calmer and more at peace.
If you’re looking for a safe, professional space to experience comforting touch and emotional support, Embrace Club is here to help you feel better and nurture your overall well-being. You don’t have to face stress or sadness alone; there are always ways to find comfort, healing, and connection through mindful care and professional touch.
Embrace Club
80 Monroe St, Brooklyn, NY 11216
(718) 755-8947
https://embraceclub.com/
